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Mar 10

The secret to lasting longer in bed revealed

How To Last LongerSexual prowess is one of the things on which men pride themselves. Perhaps men are guilty of overstressing the importance of being a hard loving stud in the bedroom, but judging by the stories you hear in bars, clubs, parties, and locker rooms, every guy out there is doing more than his bit to prolong the human race. Not only that, they’re all stallions in bed, able to please their woman indefinitely.

That’s what you hear. The truth is somewhat different.  The truth is, many men suffer for years from Premature Ejaculation or PE for short.  It’s a problem apt to blight a relationship, no matter how loving, because attaining full sexual satisfaction for both parties is very difficult when the sex session is constantly cut short by the seemingly unavoidable impulse to ejaculate quickly.

The jury is out on what exactly causes PE. Some researchers believe it is linked to man’s most basic instinct to finish the sex act quickly so as to impregnate the female and ensure the survival of the species. Others believe it is linked to anxieties formed by having to masturbate quickly and furtively in the post puberty years.

Whatever it is, it can cause a profound lack of confidence. That’s why many men have found that the Male Massager is a highly pleasurable way to build up sex stamina.

Because the Male Massager authentically simulates the sex act, with regular use it can help to build stamina by acclimatising the penis to the intense stimulation of sexual intercourse. Once conditioned to withstand the arousal levels, a man can translate this newly develop skill to the bedroom, and smash his own personal best for endurance as a lover.

With its multi-speed controller and motorized engine, the Male Massager is a fully automatic hands free massage. Discover the secret for yourself. Try the Male Massager for yourself by visiting www.malemassager.com.

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14
Dec 09

How to start ‘feelin’ groovy’

How To Last LongerYou don’t need little helpers, uppers or downers to start feeling groovy. You just need to reinvent the concept of ‘me time’. Believe it or not, the company you work for will probably survive if you ease off the gas a little. And if it doesn’t, the chances are they are doing things the wrong way.

If you make it clear that you believe in the work/life balance thing early on, they will learn to accept that you put a ceiling on your time in the office. So if hanging round your workstation till 8pm or 9pm is not your idea of a good time, be up front about it, achieve what you need to achieve and walk out the door at 6pm. After all, unless you get paid over time, which you probably don’t, you’re definitely not being paid to sit there making the office look busy after 6pm.

It may feel weird leaving the office while there are still the dying embers of a thing called daylight, but this is the start of a fantastic adventure known as having a life. Having a life means you are getting home early to do what you want to. For the sake of this discussion, let us suppose the one thing you want to do is learn how to last longer in bed.

Well, the first important step is to have a longer recovery time between work and play. Ok, you’ve just done that, and the boss is now left staring at your empty chair.

It’s time now to get into some serious training. You are programmed to finish everything quickly, be it a report, a presentation, even a phone call to your partner.

The Male Massager is where you start to take your time. Settle yourself somewhere quiet where you know you won’t be disturbed and get naked. While others are still clock watching at work, you are just applying some lube and slipping into something very comfortable.

Once you are ready, switch on the multi-speed controller and relax as the machine works on your manhood from top to bottom in a rhythmic movement that is at once relaxing and soothing. The first few times you try it it’s going to result in a very fast finish, but with perseverance, you are going to build the all important stamina that is going to make you a real stayer, not in the office, but in the bedroom.

And that’s the kind of overtime you want to be focusing on from this moment on. Feeling groovy yet?

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14
Dec 09

Not feelin’ groovy?

Slow down, you’re movin’ too fast
You gotta make the morning last
Just kickin’ down the cobblestones
Lookin’ for fun and
Feelin’ groovy

At the height of flower power, Paul Simon wrote this song as an ode to slowing down, taking life easy and ‘feelin’ groovy’. It was hopelessly optimistic. Perhaps we all thought and hoped the coming of the computer age would make things easier for us. Many pundits talked of the new leisure age where our computers would do all the work for us, and we would have to find inventive ways of amusing ourselves with all the time on our hands. Whatever happened to that idea?

True, computers have saved time and made massive economies of scale, but all that saved time has simply meant you are expected to do your job faster and more effectively. And because the pace is constantly hotting up, leisure time is something merely glimpsed on a postcard from some lucky guy who managed to steal a quick vacation. Nowadays it’s become so bad that most people don’t even take a lunch break, they bring food into the office and chomp it at their desk while working. There’s no time for ‘feelin’ groovy.’ Only time for more urgent projects.

So when it comes to how to last longer in bed, well with the weight of the world on your shoulders, it also metaphorically crushes your testicles, so you just don’t feel like having sex, because good sex is all about being relaxed and care free. If you are feeling distinctly ungroovy, stressed and simply too exhausted for sex, in the next article, read our tips for rehabilitating your libido and lasting longer in bed. After all, you’ve got to make the morning last.

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14
Dec 09

Slow down, you’re movin’ too fast!

How To Last LongerIt’s probably a blessing that women are not the sex that ejaculate because otherwise we’d be kept waiting all day. On the other hand, the ‘get the job over and done with quickly’ mentality that works so well for men in most situations, such as cleaning out the garage, or cutting the lawn, doesn’t quite cut it when you need to know how to last longer in the bedroom.

Once men are over the threshold of this particular room, suddenly, from being in a world where they are depended upon to be fast and effective in everything they do, where less is more, and where time savings equal cost savings, they are expected to take it slow, take longer, last longer, be dreamy and indulgent.

Most men are not wired up to be this way. It’s hardly surprising therefore, that many men approach the task of lovemaking like driving a car; full throttle and cutting corners until they reach their destination.

And let’s face it, no one spends time after a journey thanking the car for getting them there. In the same way, men don’t feel the need to lie back and contemplate what just took place, thanking their partner and telling her how fantastic she was. In fact, most men have got their pants back on before the woman has had time to realize it’s all over.

So compromises have to be made. If you find you are compulsively finishing the job ahead of schedule, you need to slow down and sniff the proverbial roses. Here are a few ways to relax and shift down a gear or two:

Focus on her not you

If you focus on the object of the exercise as being her orgasm and not your own, you will find you last longer. Concentrate on making the session last at least fifteen minutes, take your time, take it slow.

Keep you excitement level in check

If total all out sexual excitement is a 10 you need to focus your efforts to plateau at a 7 throughout the session right up until the end when you can permit yourself the top level. If you find yourself getting too excited you have to calm it down. Stop the session for a few moments if necessary and squeeze right below the head of the penis to stop the ejaculatory response.

Switch positions

If things are over heating too fast it often helps to switch positions. The interruption and the need to change your position will provide the necessary pause and delay needed to regroup and build up again.